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Tribute To My Fibro Friends

Welcome!

Lately I have been introduced
to so so Many on-line friends
 who have in the past or recently been diagnoised with Fibromyalgia......
So I want
to Dedicate and pay Tribute
 In their Honor!
I Understand,
and
I will always understand!
                                                Aloma/2004

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* A TRIBUTE TO
 MY FIBRO SISTERS
AND FRIENDS* 

             * My Oath To You!*
 
When you are sad---
I will dry your tears
When you are scared--
I will comfort your fears
When you are worried--
I will give you hope
When you are confused --
I will help you cope
And when you are lost--
And can't see the light
I will stand beside you --
Until it's alright
This is my oath--
I pledge til the end
Why you may ask?--
Because you are
My Fibro Friend!
                                              -unknown author

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" Our human capacity to 'tune in' to others when exposed to their feelings may explain why we do not always behave selfishly in human interactions but instead engage in altruistic, helping behavior"
                                                   -Tania Singer
                                                                                           University College of London
The thruth behind "I Feel Your Pain"
Empathy triggers pain-sensitive areas of the brain.
 

WORDS OF WISDOM .......
               "You can't stop the waves,
But you can learn how to surf"
                      -unknown author

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" Seems to me you lived your life like A Candle in the Wind, Never knowing who to cling to , when the rain set in.
      Your Candle burned out long before.....
                          Your Legend ever will"
                                                         - Elton John

While surfing the 'net one day I came across this website; It was with deep sadness and tears I read , I would like to share this with all , people with FMS and ones without also.
 
FM VICTIMS- A Website in Memory of Suicide Victims of Fibromyalgia....
 
Jan Murphey
1956-1997
                  Jan Murphey commited suicide last summer because she could no longer live with a disease/illness that many doctors still do not believe exists....
              "Please do not think of this as suicide " she wrote, "But as a self-deliverance from a life that became too unbearable to live."
             "When you start hearing there is no hope, no treatment and no cure, over and over, You lose your will to fight" Murphy wrote in a eulogy that was read at her funeral. "What most people saw of me was a shell of what was going on inside."
                                                -Jan Murphy, 1997
 
 
 
 
 
BE SURE YOU HAVE YOUR KLEENEX HANDY!
 

National Fibromyalgia Awareness Day
 
The National Fibromyalgia Association
is hosting several events for
Awareness Day
Learn about this years programs
 and how you can get involved.
 
 

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"Bread cast on the waters comes back to you.
The good deed you do today may benefit you or someone you love at the least expected time.
If you never see the deed again , at least you will have made the world a better place- And after all; Isn't that what life's all about?"
                  -unknown author
 
 
 
 
 
 
"The hardest thing to learn in life is...
Which bridge to cross and which to burn."
                                         -unknown author

This is another one of my poems I wrote,
 March/2004
You can also view it at....
 
For All MY FRIENDS!!!
 
                  * My Prayer, My Friends *
 
Will my life ever be happy and free?
Will I be able to see beyound the trees?
Am I here to suffer as others may do?
So I can help them, support and see?
My Life is full of disappointments and grief,
Will I ever be free, Lord?
From this pain filled life of mine?
Or will it steal my life like a theif?
I have faith in you Lord always,
But sometimes the Cross gets hard to bear,
Help me Lord to walk in your word,
Help me Lord to show others I care!
Lead me and guide me, My God I ask thee,
Help me help someone else in need.
Show me Lord What I need to do
Help me Lord, To plant your seed!
I'm not much Lord, But here I am!
Give me the Wisdom and show me how,
To help all others who are burdened in Pain,
If you would Please Lord, Just let me allow,
To help a friend, thats hurt and in pain,
Please Lord give me the right thing to say,
To help them endure this burden they bear,
And show them the light of your Heavenly way!
Bless all of you that hurt and cry,
I've prayed to my God, My Lord
And ask him please if He would
Take up your cross and bear it he would.
Fear not my friends, for My Lord has said,
That he would protect you and all that you need,
He will love you as no other can!
I grant you this, My Lord his Creed!
                                     - Aloma S Patrick / March 2004

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A personal poem I wrote
 Just for my Friends in Pain.....
 
Will My life ever be happy and free?
Will I be able to see beyond the grief?
Am I here to suffer as others may do?
Help them to this journey through?
 
My Life is full of disappointments
and pain
Am I here to suffer, with nothing to gain?
Will we ever be free of this life of woe?
How long shall we have this journey to go?
 
I know not why, we have this burden to bear?
All I know , is for the others I care!
Maybe they don't know you, as I do
Show me how..I can help them thru.
 
Is this a burden or a prize I ask?
Have you given me a special task?
To be to others what I've never had?
A heartfull of love, to uplift the sad?
 
I know my heart breaks for all in pain
I ask of you, not let it be in vain.
Help me , help others who are weaker than I
Hold them close in my bossom while they cry.
 
Help me Lord to guide the weak
put upon my tongue the words to speak
Console the hurt, and wipe the tears
Help me Help them calm their fears.
 
Someday I know when this world is gone
We the hurt will sing a new song
We'll hurt no more, and happy we'll be
Walking with you lord, my God In Thee.
                                               AlomaPatrick/2004